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A letter to Every Student on a Journey

An honest and heartfelt companion for navigating and thriving in college — from the pen of Ruth Oluwadamilola Olujobi.

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★★★★★

"This is not just a book. It is a map, a mirror, and a message. A map to guide young dreamers, a mirror that reflects our own hidden questions and fears, and a message that says: you're not alone, you're not too far, and your journey is valid." - Daniel Afolabi

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DISCOVER THE BOOK—DEAR SOJOURNER

From Ikorodu, Lagos, to the U.S., a college journey like no other.

In Dear Sojourner, Ruth Olujobi shares her inspiring story as the first in her family to attend college abroad—crossing oceans, cultures, and personal challenges to thrive in a new world.

With honesty and heart, she walks readers through the layered realities of the college experience, such as:

Building meaningful friendships
Navigating academics and campus life
Facing failure, homesickness, and loss
Chasing big dreams and discovering new ones
Growing spiritually, personally, and financially
Handling the Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO)
Leaving your legacy and preparing for life after college

Written especially for students, dreamers, and international scholars, Dear Sojourner is filled with stories, honest reflections, encouragements, practical insights, and hard-earned wisdom for thriving in college and beyond.

About The Author

Ruth Olujobi is a graduate of Bowdoin College, where she studied Neuroscience and German. A passionate advocate for quality healthcare, she is equally committed to leadership, service, and building community wherever she finds herself.

During her time at Bowdoin, Ruth held multiple leadership roles, including serving as President of the Africa Alliance, Bowdoin’s African student organization, a Proctor for Bowdoin's Residential Life, a Student Engagement Ambassador for the Alumni Office, a student assistant at the Office of Co-Curricular Opportunities, and more.

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Frequently asked questions (FAQs)

Where can I purchase a hard copy of Dear Sojourner?

You can order a Paperback or a Hardcover of the book on Amazon or Selar. Just click one of the buttons on this website.

Where can I get an e-copy of Dear Sojourner?

E-copies are currently only available on Selar. We’ll share an update once they are available on Amazon.

Will there be pickup locations?

There are currently two pickup locations in Lagos (CMUL and Ikorodu), and we will add more as time goes on. Check our Contact Us page for more information or to reach out to us if you would like to help set up other pickup locations.

Can I get my copy signed?

Ruth will be signing copies at events she attends, so be on the lookout for those. Details will be shared on this website and our social media pages @dearsojournermemior.

Who should read this book?

This book contains gems for high school and college students. This book is also for anyone navigating change, eager to grow, searching for direction, and open to gaining new insights.

Can I gift this to a friend?

Absolutely! It makes a thoughtful gift for birthdays, graduations, a new milestone, or just because you care.

Will there be future books?

There surely will! Ruth is excited to keep sharing her thoughts through her writings.

Can I invite the author for a reading or event?

Certainly! Kindly send a message via the "Contact Us" page or directly to Ruth for speaking engagements, readings, or collaborations.

Get in touch

You can also get in touch with Ruth via LinkedIn & Instagram @Ruth Olujobi or via Email @
rutholujobi01@gmail.com